Welcome to HerUnapologetic


The ambitious woman's one-stop-shop for reconnecting with your feminine nature, without letting go of your goals, dreams, and standards.



Hi, I'm Kat!


It is my life‘s mission to help women experience openness, creativity, vulnerability, and the fullness of their femininity so they can live without the mask and experience true connection.

I've spent over 6 years with Deloitte Consulting coaching some of the world's largest leaders on how to affect change and transformation in their organization. After witnessing the burnout of women of color in these companies and navigating my own experiences, one thing became abundantly clear to me: women of color do not need to do more. In fact, we need to do less more intentionally.

It is my passion to help women free themselves from the narrative that they have to be strong, guarded, doers, and hustlers all the time.

There is a way that you can achieve your deepest desires by operating in a state of being and flow... and I will show you how!






Introducing the HerUnapologetic Academy


The HerUnapologetic Academy is a 12 week course with a membership community of revolutionary women just like you. Over the 12 weeks, you learn to embody femininity so that you can have the confidence, life outcomes, relationships, and exhibit the ways of being that you crave.


By the end of the program, you will learn to:


1. Honor your femininity- be open, receptive, nurturing, and confident


2. Let your guard down - you'll learn to love vulnerability as it is the key ingredient to connection


3.Over-analyze less; you'll learn to finally get out of your own head so that you can focus on being rather than doing


4.Deepen your connection to your body and intuition so that you can experience the fullness of life and your relationships


5.Attract masculine partners who lead - you'll learn how your feminine nature will attract partners who lead to you


6.Let go of the hustle and grind mentality - learn how to achieve your goals with a feminine energy and grace


7.Experience deeper intimacy, vulnerability, connection, and understanding with yourself and others


8.Set healthy boundaries as a feminine woman (without the guilt)


9.Learn effective communication and how to really see and respect your partner when interacting with them


By the end of the program, you will find yourself exuding femininity. And as you do so, your feminine energy will re-ignite your confidence, increase your connection and intimacy to others, and shift how others engage with you.









Client Stories

Here's what my students had to say about their time in this program:

Now, you are probably wondering:

“Is this program for me?”


Well, that depends:


Do you struggle with masculine behaviors that leave you feeling burnt-out and run-down in your work, career, and relationships?


Do you feel out of touch with your feminine side, but deeply desire to feel soft, open, receptive, nurturing, and confident?


Are you exhausted from forcing your way through life…. forcing relationships (or situation-ships) and instead deeply desire to operate in a state of flow?


Do you struggle with being in go-mode all of the time because you associate your worthiness with how much you accomplish, make, or do?


Do you self-sabotage when it comes to dating because you operate in heavy masculine energy (therefore repelling masculine partners)?


Do you crave deeper intimacy, vulnerability, and understanding with yourself and others?


And do you want to wake up confident in your femininity and allow it to permeate how you show up in your life?



If you answered “yes” to any of the questions above, this program is for you!



Program Curriculum


  Phase 0: Start Here!
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  Phase 1: Release
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  Phase 2: Balance
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  Phase 3: Shift
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  Phase 4: Savor
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What do you get after joining the 12-week Academy?


Lifetime access to all the modules for you to watch and re-watch to support your femininity journey long after the program



Group calls (every 2 weeks) and support from a community of ambitious women reconnecting with their femininity for support, guidance, and connection (and lots of laughter / joy)

Access to tools such as guided reflection and next steps (after EACH module) for application of your feminine energy to transform your life and relationships

Downloadable access to all course PDF’s (shown in the video modules) to support learning and provide offline access

Text and email support from me (no spam - just checkins and support) to provide guidance and counsel as needed






Frequently Asked Questions










1. How exactly does group coaching work?

The structure of the program is a self-paced, cohort-based model. Meaning, you have all the modules to work through at your own pace. Most people watch 1 - 2 videos each week! You are also invited to attend a bi-weekly community coaching session with your cohort led by me, Kat! During these group meetings we reflect, share "aha" moments, challenge one another, and laugh a whole lot!


2. What if I miss a cohort meeting?

If you miss a meeting, don’t fret! Even if you’re not able to attend meeting, you will still have access to the course modules for you to watch!


3. How long is the course?

The course has 12 weeks of content - though you are welcome to complete it at your own pace! Now, if this feels longer than you would have liked...let me level with you for a moment: True transformation requires the unlearning of behaviors and beliefs that have obstructed you; which does not happen over night. We've designed the program to be as effective as possible in the shortest amount of time. Some women zip through the content, while others need more time to process. Either is great!


4. When do the community calls start?

The community calls are ongoing and on a bi-weekly cadence (every two weeks). Once you enroll, you receive a welcome email which details the next community call and next steps.


5. How long do I have access to the course?

Though the community calls last for 12 weeks, you have lifetime access to the modules. We've designed it this way so you can continue to apply and re-watch the modules as needed to support your journey!


6. Is this program for a specific age?

This program is not for a specific age! Our community members are aged early 30s- 40s. When you enroll, we ask you to provide your DOB (in your onboarding form), so we can group you accordingly in the right cohort for your unique experiences.


7. Femininity sounds "fluffy"... are there actual strategies and tools I will learn?

We love this question because one of the biggest pieces of feedback we receive is how transformational this program really is! Have no fear, this program is curated with an intentional set of strategies to help you shift into your feminine nature.


8. Is this a dating program?

Put simply, HerUnapologetic is centered around you. Though the primary focus is not on "getting a romantic partner," nearly all of our clients rave about how the program has transformed their love life. And this makes total sense: As you transform into a more feminine and open woman - you will find yourself unguarded, vulnerable, and open to life - which invites new experiences (and people into your life). We've also dedicated the last phase of this program specifically to your love life as we know connection and intimacy is an integral part of the human experience (Check out Phase 4 of the course curriculum: Savor).


9. What if I am unhappy with the course?

You deserve to be excited about this investment and your complete joy with your decision to join this community is what we strive for! So if for some reason you are less than satisfied, we offer a 30 day refund guarantee. We simply ask that in those 30 days: you watch the assigned course modules, complete the guided reflections, and engage in each of the bi-weekly meetings. If after showing up with intention and doing the aforementioned you’re still not satisfied, we are happy to provide you a full refund within 30 days.









Sophia M.



"Before coaching, I was very angry, depressed, and unsure about how to cope with traumatic situations… which caused me to be in a fight or flight state of mind. Having Kat as a coach has benefited me because she is very encouraging, helpful, and resourceful. From our coaching, I learned to give myself grace – She helps me realize I am allowed to still feel how I feel. I now apply the tools that she's given me, give myself grace, and don't live my life at effect.


Having her as a coach is awesome - I support her and everything she does from here on out!"

Iesha M.


"Before speaking with Kat, I struggled with horrible self-limiting beliefs, negative thinking patterns and self-esteem issues stemming from the past. She has helped me to get to the source of what is causing me to think that way and helps me to come up with different solutions/goals. I love that she is non- judging, which gives me ease to open up about my problems. I can tell that she really cares, she is so supportive which I really appreciate.


I would recommend her to anyone!"

Shea L.


"She is such an amazing coach. I had so much self doubt, so much hurt and pain from the past, confusion, and I just didn’t know what to do with my life. She has given me so many tools, is so patient with me, and takes her time. She allows me to take inventory of my habits and replace them with things that can benefit me. She has really helped me.


I would recommend Kat to anybody, anybody. Her heart is beautiful and that’s what I love about her!"






This course is closed for enrollment.